Too many morals? Is that possible?

By now I'm sure you all know that I am proud of the values and morals that my parents instilled in me. However, i often wonder whether or not I'm a prisoner to these morals, values, and standards. Is it possible that upholding my principles is holding me back from having a good time and enjoying my youth? I wouldn't think so but others may. Today my friend called me a grandma and told me that I have too many morals. I laughed because it just sounds absurd. How is it possible for somebody to have too many morals. In my opinion, having morals is a great thing. At the end of the day having morals is way better than not having morals. This is not to say that if you lack morals you are a bad person. I'm simply saying that having certain moral codes and principles that guide your maneuvers will assist you on this bumpy journey. No matter what anybody says I rather be a person with great character and standards that people will respect me for. If the entire world was blind, it would be a shame for me to be known as somebody with no self respect. Having morals has held me back from getting extremely loose and doing things that I would regret. Having morals has kept me from smoking, drinking excessively, and having sex. Having morals has allowed me to be respected and appreciated. And having morals has given me happiness and confidence for eighteen years. But should I let some of them go in the name of fun? Should I lower my standards and forget some of the values that I was always taught to carry with me? Maybe just for one night I'll do this and see how I like it. I'm pretty sure I wont though lol.
As I was conversing with Yannick via telephone, I was in the hair salon. The topic kind of shifted and I told him that I hate imbalanced couples. One of the hair dressers over heard me and chuckled. She contested that I hold this notion because I'm young and haven't really lived yet. I insisted that this wasn't the reason, but she feels strongly. Maybe I'll change my views if I find somebody who is unattractive yet sweeps me off my feet. I don't really think it's possible though but life is full of strange possibilities. Me? A girl who wouldn't date anybody lower than a 7? A girl who wants a modelesque boyfriend so that we can be a statuesque couple? Me a girl who criticizes couples who are not equally attractive? Lol yea it's kind of hard to imagine that I'd ever lower my standards. But maybe Simone was right and I'll find somebody who looks like Seal but treats me with the utmost respect. I guess I'll just have to wait and see. Oh and about losing some of my morals? I'll have to keep you posted. Until then I'll be the same ol "grandma".

Brooks Brothers Spring 2011

Wooo hooo! The Brooks Brothers Spring 2011 catalog is sizzling. It came in the other day for my dad, because he shops there and I wanted to take a gander. I must tell you they have very chic and attractive pieces. My lil stylist instinct began to kick in, even though I don't really know anyone who would be willing to shop at Brooks Brothers. Hmm except for my friend Jose. Well guys I think it's time for you to step it up. Try to switch it up for the new season. Be on your grown and sexy!

Absolutely not ok.

Let me begin by saying that I hold myself to a certain standard, and I believe that every individual should. One should have standards, live by those standards, and respect others who have standards. Unfortunately having standards is not very popular, especially among young and ignorant individuals. Well today as I was in music class, an acquaintance of mine had walked into class late and told me that as she was shopping she exchanged numbers with a a guy. For some strange reason as they were texting he asked her to send him a picture of her. She wanted to show me a few of her pictures to see what I thought would be the best one to send. Too bad I stopped her right then and there. I did not choose a picture because I didn't think is was necessary or appropriate for her to send a picture to a guy who she just met. Oh and I forgot, he was sending a picture of himself also. This wouldn't be a case of sexting or the like, but I still thought it would be inappropriate to send a picture even if it was harmless. I just find it suspicious and weird that he would want a picture of her. Lets just say that she knew him for a longer period of time, I would still find it creepy and unwise for her to send pictures to him. Maybe I'm just too up tight but why is it necessary for another person to have a picture of you on his/her phone unless you took it on that person's phone. I don't know maybe I'm just too old school. Which brings me to my next point. I also do not find it appropriate for a guy to text a girl at 1 in the morning. It's one thing if they had already been conversing, or they just left each other, but starting a conversation at that time of the hour is simply inappropriate. I'll make an exception if this guy is your boyfriend but if the two of you are just talking and he texts you saying something along the lines of "I miss you", then that text message should not be answered. I feel like boys are playing a game, and do not respect girls who they text that late. Why couldn't you text her at a reasonable hour so that you two could meet up since you miss her? Boys who do this are pure douche bags. loll ok maybe I'm being harsh but come on, get some respect. Now if the girl responds, I do not blame him. If she doesn't feel that it's inappropriate than she will allow him to do this. A friend of mine argued that it all depends on the neighborhood that you were raised in. I don't see how this correlates to the subject, but ok lol. I just feel that it has to do with your education, parental figures and perhaps your surroundings. If you are taught to have certain morals and values than it will be easier for you to uphold certain standards. In rare cases one may still be classy even if they were not taught by their parents. It all depends on the individual. Well that's just my prerogative. I am an individual with many opinions and if I wasn't than this blog would not exist lol.

R.I.P Lizzy

The legendary Elizabeth Taylor has passed away at the age of 79. Such a beautiful and iconic lady in Hollywood. After being in the hospital for over a month, Elizabeth passed away of congestive heart failure. She will truly be missed. Rest in Peace Lizzy.

Look at him now

Now you know this wouldn't be andallthatg0od_stuff if I didn't report about the new media buzz surrounding Mr. Brown. I'm not usually one fending for him but in this situation I have to defend him. After all the negativity that Chris Brown had to endure, he was actually coming back. He has a strong fan base and they never left his side despite the legal woes and adversity with my girl Rhi. After watching Chris perform on 106 & Park yesterday I can honestly say that he was gaining back my support. His new album F.A.M.E seems like a banger, and he was just extremely excited. BUT as you all know, this morning Chris took three steps back. After a performance on good morning America, Chris sat with Robin Roberts for an interview. I only saw about a minute of it, but that was just enough for me to know that Ms. Roberts crossed the threshold. I understand that as a journalist she is supposed to dig for answers, but this time around it was completely unnecessary. He was there to promote his "ALBUMMM", not revisit a controversial issue that took place two years ago. Robin took it a bit too far by asking Chris about the scenario on more than  one occasion. It was apparent that Chris didn't appreciate it, and just wanted to discuss his latest project. However, I don't understand why Chris reacted the way he did off camera. Clearlyyyy his anger management classes did not work, so he should get a refund. Throwing a chair through a window to release tension is entirely unacceptable. He could have had some decorum and even walked away from the interview, but he had to take it to the next level.  Gaining back the respect that was lost two years ago was not an easy process. But now he has to do it all over again.To me, and I'm sure many others Chris Brown needs assistance. I'm trying to figure out where Momma is in his time of need. I am really convinced that there is psychological damage in his brain. Him and Mr. Sheen need to seek immediate medical help! Come on Chris...I can't even say you're better than this but you could do better than this! Get it together boo. Nevertheless I believe that everyone should get a copy of F.A.M.E and support this troubled individual. Lol let me stop. He has great songs on the album. And if I'm trying to support him you should too.

Daily Fab

He is a gorgeous boy. And I like this poem but he needs to work on his performance.

Happy Birthday

Special birthday wishes go out to lil cutie Diggy Simmons. He turns sixteen today and is still not old enough for me but a cutie nonetheless. Diggy hasn't even been in the game for that long but he is cultivating his own. He is  one to watch because he has a lot more to bring to the table than some of the older rappers in the game. I'm still anticipating a collaboration between him, J. Beiber, and Willow. Whenever that happens I'm sure it will be hot! Happy birthday Diggy!

Meeting some brown sugah

St.Patrick's day was lovely because of the amazing weather. I didn't attend the parade or anything, but I watched the aftermath in Central Park with a couple of friends. One of the perks of going to school in the city is being able to enjoy nature at it's finest. Well between the drunken teenagers and the douche bag cops, we were able to sit atop a huge rock beside a crew of guys who were decked out in their finest green street wear. They were very festive despite the fact that none of them were Irish. Lime green foam posits, bedazzled green belts, and baggy pants was what they were draped in. Their drugs were even green lol. Despite their appearance and activity they turned out to be gentle men. They helped intoxicated people as they made their way up the steep rocks. After sitting and chatting with them them for about forty five minutes, we made our way out of the park because I was longing for some chocolate and ice cream. Well as my friends and I stood outside the entrance of central park south near seventh avenue waiting for the GPS to tell us where I'd be able to find what I was yearning for, I caught a glimpse of some brown sugah. Mos Def to be exact. Surprisingly he was just walking by himself with a lovely trench coat on his back, a pair of vintage oxfords on his feet, and a leather brief case in his hand; talk about ideal lol. While my friends were lost in their conversation I said to him "Hey common". After a couple of seconds I felt like a pure idiot. He responded by saying "I'm Mos though". I felt terrible! I knewwww he wasn't common, and I knew his name but I guess my "non chalant" demeanor got the best of me. I didn't want to be a "fan" and scream. But my friends quickly realized who he was and began chasing after him, lol typical fans! I was too ashamed to do that so I walked instead lol. When we caught up to him I apologized and he assured me that it was ok. I knew that it wasn't but if he said it was than I had to accept it. My friend hugged him but really wanted a picture. According to Mos, he never takes pictures with any fans or whatever, so I respected his wishes and kept myself from snapping a quick one with my Evo. Mos Def is a cute guy. Laid back, down to earth, cool,calm, and collected. He's just like you and I, walking down the street going about his business. I can't even be mad.

The "baddest" girls, the most beautiful.

Are the natural ones. If you thought I was going to say somebody like Amber Rose than you are clearly in the wrong place my darling. I've said it before and I'll say it again. In terms of Amber's looks she is sub par. Her body is great but her face isn't. I'm here to say that any girl who can go without make up or extensions is a poppin chick. For example, Ms. Joy Bryant is a poppin chick. She seldom wears make up and I believe her hair is natural. Esperanza Spalding is another beautiful girl, with her fro she is not a force to be reckoned with. I understand that some guys like hair to play with, but a nappy or bald scalp can be fun too! loll I wish I had the face and head for a natural nappy lil fro, I'd be all over that! Puffy/ curly/kinky hair is what's up!! Everybody lovess Kim Kardashian but I doubt they'll love her with no make up on, thats when she's the ugliest I hope that you don't take it wrong lol.



Chillingg with no make up on



Ideal Men

The men of takers. Idris Elba, Hayden Christianson, Mike Ealy, & Paul Walker.
You see those suits? TAILERED





 

I think my ideal guy would wear these lol juss sayin. Ok I'm done. Wait no I'm not there will most definately be more mentions of my ideal guy.

Daily Fab

We don't usually get to see this side of Meaghan Good. Shes always sporting leggings and a leather jacket and looking pretty basic but this cover shows a more softer and regal side of her. I love this royal blue color on her!

Congratulations Amar'e for being the first ever male featured on "Daily Fab". I love this tailored look with the geek glasses. You all know I love a man in a bow tie, and he took a risk with everything that he has on. I don't know many people that this would work for but it sure works for him. OIWWW!

Her name is Keri, shes so very fly oh my it's a little bit scary. I am loving this animal print ensemble paired with door knocker earrings and a beanie. I haven't seen anyone rock a pair of door knockers for quite some time now but she is doing the do. I love the shirt giorll! Get it!

Disclaimer: I don't know why but I keep coming up with posts that deal with the ideal guy. Isn't that strange for somebody who doesn't want a relationship for another four years? Well I guess it isn't. Maybe it will take four or more years to find this guy that I keep describing.

How awesome would it be to find a guy who read or studied on the train/bus instead of listened to music. There is nothing wrong with listening to music, I do it sometimes but I find it intriguing if a guy wants to stimulate his mind even on the go. Chivalry can't be dead, I know it's alive and well down south but it needs to be here in New York also. A guy who never fails to open the door for a lady and would give up his seat on the train or bus even while he's with his girlfriend sounds like the ideal guy to me lol. Besides all that, a guy who would call up my mom and sisters just to say hello and find out how they are doing is an ideal guy. If he would take it a step further and dine with them even when I'm not around then he's a keeper. It may sound impossible to find but a guy who seldom uses the term "bitch" to refer to any female but he has to be out there. How about a guy who doesn't waste his time with foolish people because he knows from a far no one would differentiate the fool from the intellect. I don't mind a guy who drinks but he shouldn't do it often. Smoking isn't the most attractive thing either so this ideal guy would not be a smoker. Any guy who aspires to trade in his back pack or duffle bag for a brief case sounds ideal. I don't mind a guy who rocks Jordans and Nikes but if he doesn't mind putting on a pair of loafers and oxfords a couple days out of the week then he is pretttyy ideal lol. A guy who understands my strange sense of humor and would go shopping with me sounds pretty ideal. Strangely, I believe that every girl out there wishes to have the guy that I'm describing but they settle for someone else. Settling is not in my vocabulary, I just can't do it. Would you settle for a Toyota if you could have an Aston Martin? If you would I guess that's just you're prerogative, but I could never and will never. Call me silly but I'm just a girl who hopes for the best, even though I mostly expect the worst. I'd have to congratulate anybody who has thier ideal guy/girl please keep him/her.

The hand of friendship has no color

I want a friend from all different walks of life. A friend from every race, ethnicity, sexual origin, and religion. I don't discriminate. I may need to work on being prejudice but I'm not racist in any way shape or form. I currently have Spanish, black, and white friends but I'm still in need of friends that are Asian, Pacific Islander, and Arab/Middle Eastern. I have no homosexual friends or Muslim friends but I sure would love some. I probobly sound like a loner right now but that's not the case. I just want to have a diverse group of friends.

Now I'm not usually attracted to guys who are not black, but I would love to date an Asian, Pacific Islander, White, and Arab/Middle Eastern. Any takers? Lol

"Hey girl I think my butt gettin big"

Actually I know my butt is getting big.

I don't even know if this is a good or bad thing. Yesterday for the first time,  I put on a pair of pants that I purchased about three months ago. You know the pants that are high waist and baggy? Well yea when I first bought them, they were baggy....but strangely they seemed to have shrank. I said to myself..hmmm these pants didn't fit me like this before. Is it me? or did these pants shrink? Well seeing as though pants do not have the ability to shrink on their own...it's me. My butt and thighs did indeed get big. UGHHH I don't appreciate this. My metabolism is slowing down and I'm not really feeling it. Any guy would be like "YEA thas wassup" which is even more of a reason for me to be annoyed with this growth! FML

Primavera & La cuidad

Wouldn't that just be divine?

Yesterday as a friend and I strolled through 42nd street and took a seat in Bryant Park we could not help but notice this beautiful scene. Out of all the gorgeous trees, people and architecture that Manhattan  had to offer us, this was by far thee most beautiful thing that I laid eyes on. A father dining in the park with his infant child. I wish this could have been made into a painting because I'd surely place it in my room. Not to be bias or anything but what made this even more beautiful was the fact that this duo was Black. It's not because I'm Black or anything but it's because the odds are always against black men. Often times we see Black mothers with their sons or daughters and we can't help but think that the father may be out of the picture. This image inspired us. We talked about our future lives and hoped that this could be our husband. Not baby father....husband. Is this possible? Melissa thinks that in today's society it's too much to ask for. But I'd have to beg to differ. Maybe I'm living in a fantasy world but I cannot imagine having a husband who is any different from this man in the picture. In the sense that he is responsible and caring. I don't know his past, present, or future but what matters is that he is taking care of business with someone who should matter the most. Having a husband who would take our children to the park or bring me lunch at work or wisk me away spontaneously is all that I ask for. Is it too much?
 It can't be.

Daily Fab

Shaunie O'neil is looking pretty dapper on the cover of "Rolling Out" magazine. I can't hate on her, for someone who has five kids she is looking damn good. Get it Shaunie

And who can ever be mad at this set of besties. These ladies are always on point, especially Mrs. Lala Anthony. I aspire to afford the shoes and clothes that these ladies wear. That will be me and my girls in about ten years!

Tocarra has really evolved from her ANTM days. The weight loss is tremendous but I don't know if I really like it. She has really lost all her gorgeous curves. She looks like a size four now, gorgeous nonetheless.

What is a compliment?

Today as I got on the train a light skin dude with dreads smiled at me. To be polite I smiled back. Well this dude was one of three drummers performing on the train. After I sat down, he smiled at me again., so I smiled back and looked away to avoid any more smiling. I noticed that he and his fellow drummers were talking about me in what seemed to be a wisper. I couldn't quite make out their exact words but I knew that I was the topic of discussion. Following their mini conversation, dude with the dreads asked if I wanted to hear a song so I nodded.. then he then asked me if I wanted to hear a song about me. I shook my head...BUTTT he didn't care lol. He told his drummer friends to give him a beat. He announced to the train that I was beautiful, but not in an obnoxious way and that he was dedicating a song to me. And of course he started singing Joe Cocker's "You are so beautiful". I was embarrassed. Thank goodness he wasn't extremely loud and obnoxious because then I'd be damned. Which leads me to my point. What is a compliment? Is it a few nice words to show appreciation for somebody else? Does it matter who is giving you the compliment? I often wonder if girls appreciate an attractive guy's compliment more than an unattractive guy's compliment. I'm almost certain that a majority of women have been stopped by a guy on the street. What is your typical response? Is it any different if the guy is gorgeous? Would you go on your merry way regardless of who is stopping you? Or would you stop and enjoy conversation if the person is cute. This is the same for guys too..because I'm sure there are females out there who have voiced thier attraction for some of you in public. Would you be flattered if a girl who looked like Precious found you attractive? Or does she have to look more like Halle Berry to get you blushing. I believe that it shouldn't matter who is giving it, because a compliment is a compliment. It isn't any better if the person giving it is fat,skinny, tall, short, ugly, or attractive. Dude with the dreads wasn't the most attractive guy, but he wasn't ugly..but I still appreciated his song. Lol it made me blush.

Daily Fab

Today I wanted to showcase beauty from three different racial backgrounds. It isn't often that we see a diverse group of models on the runway, in editorials, or advertisements. I feel like beauty is more than the conventional norm that the media displays. The Middle east and Asia have some of the most beautiful women, and there needs to be more models from those regions.

Perfection's alternative

I dont know about you, but I would never be able to marry somebody who has kids or had been married before. Maybe its because I like every thing fresh and brand new, and someone who has baggage is not fresh in my opinion. Is that wrong? I understand that love knows no boundaries but there are just certain things that I wouldnt be able to tolerate. Does that make me superficial and high maintenance? Maybe it does but I like and want what I want. There has to be somebody out there for me who God created ONLY for me, somebody who couldnt get married or have kids with another lady because deep down inside he knows I exist. Come on, I know that perfection doesn't exist but damnit there has to be an alternative. I would never be the type to marry for money, but my husband has to have a career, NOT a job. I want the kind of marriage that lasts until death, the kind that Will and Jada have. I'm gonna make sure I store these posts so that I can refer to them once I do find my soulmate. Wait....what if my soulmate is dead? No he can't be, thats just unfair. God is amazing and good all the time, he wouldn't do that to me..would he?

"That would be ideal"

If money grew on trees and the bills would fall with the breeze?

and if the preftect guy was around the corner, waiting to sweep me off my feet?

what if Oprah was your sister, wouldnt that be sweet? Ideal isnt real but if it was

I wish we could meet. I'd say stay a while, we can hang, unless it had a bell, that made it disappear

when it rang. This here is improv because I'm bored and trying to be deep, but wouldnt it be ideal if I got paid to speak? I'd talk all day and night and even in my sleep. Let me cut this short so that I can nap, but I'll be back next time with an ill rap!

-Murielle Henriquez

So talented

Tell the devil I said hey when you get back to where you're from.

-Bruno Mars

"I was a little different

I didn't do what the fast girls do

Study my rhythm

and you can speed me up

when you want to."

-Solange Knowles

Get em!

Have you got your bright colored trousars yet? Well if you haven't you better hurry on up! They are only spring's hottest trend! Your favorite designers introduced them on the runway, and your favorite celebs have been rocking them! Pair these pants with a contrasted bright cropped top, cami, or even a suttle pastal button up and you'll be styling!! Thanks to my sister I now have a pair, she was able to salvage a  coral straight leg trousars from H&M's pants collection. They have been out for about two weeks and they are already sold out. For ten dollars why wouldn't they be? lol 

Daily Fab

My girl Solange is looking chic once again. I love the vintage looks of her pictures and her style is suberb. This spring I plan to take on her bold looks from more affordable stores like Zara and H&M. I can't be mad at her and her small fro either, I doubt that I'd be able to execute this look as well as she does, but curls are a great alternative!

I don't need to say much about this girl Rhianna, because this picture speaks for itself. Her body is amazing, and for the first time I'm not complaining about her firey hair

My girl Marsha has really been coming into her own. She has developed her own style with her new amazing body. I love this multicolored sequin dress on her, it is tre chic! The hair is au naturale and couoldnt be any cuter! lOVES IT!

J' DORE

This jacket is pure FIRE

FABOSITY

Brendan McCann

18 years old

Pure Fabulousness

Ladies and Gentlemen please step your game up!!

Shes got an a** that will....

I love the skin I'm in and I wouldn't change it for the world. But sometimes I feel like my body hinders me from wearing certain things. I'm 5'5 1/2, a size 32D, Medium and 6. If I wear the wrong shirt my boobs are spilling out. If my dress is too short and my heels are too high I look like a tramp. Boyfriend jeans don't fit me correctly because I have hips and thighs. Certain dresses are shorter on me because I have a long torso. However, I embrace my body because many people are getting plastic surgery to have a body like mine.

In the past couple of months I have gained weight and some of my jeans do not fit me the same way. I used to refer to myself as "slender" but I think its safe to say that I've crossed the slender threshold, I don't know what to call myself now. I think moderately thick is the best term actually lol.

I like my height but I wouldnt mind being about an inch and a half taller. I think some of the most beautiful women are those who are 5'8 and above. The only issue with tall women is that they are towering over the average male with and without heels on. I wouldnt really mind it though, tall females command attention when they step into a room. A tall girl with long legs and natural hair is probobly one of the "bhaddest" girls out there. When I put heels on I'm usually about 5'10 and I feel like a giant compared to my friends who also have heels on.

My boobs aren't the biggest of the bunch but sometimes I wish I was an A cup. Certain dresses don't allow you to wear a bra, but I'd never be able to leave my house with a dress like that. Bras can be uncomfortable sometimes and ladies with small boobs can get away without wearing a bra.

There are days that I'm very envious of girls without hips and booty. The days that I want to wear a slouchy pair of jeans, or leggings even though they arent meant to be pants, or even a short dress without looking slutty . Call me ignorant but I dont think that girls without any hips or ass have to deal with the same harrassment from males as girls who do have hips and booty. I can't complain though, sometimes girls with a body are more appealing.

;)

So little time..So much to do.

I wouldn't really consider myself an anxious person or anything of the sort, but there are a couple of things that I often worry about. I find myself pondering and wondering what will become of me. I don't want to disappoint my parents, because Lord knows they have worked extremely hard to see my sisters and I succeed. I have so many aspirations and a boundless bucket list, that I frequently wonder whether or not I'll have enough time to fulfill them. I know I'm only 18, but it seems as though time has been moving rather quickly. I feel as though it was just yesterday that I was in high school wearing uniform, and now my first year of college is near conclusion. Time has always moved at the same pace, but now that I'm getting older it feels like its moving rapidly. Compared to some people I have achieved so much, and compared to others I have achieved so little. While I was on my way home on the train, I thought to myself that I may want to graduate college early so that I can get a jump start on law school. I want to challenge myself to this task, but on the other hand I don't want to grow up too fast. Once I finish law school, I might regret it. At the end of the day I just want to be successful. I don't need all the money in the world, but less than six figures wont be enough. I'd be content with making between $100,000 and $150,000 a year. I want to be able to afford nice things and be able to buy my mother Fendi, Prada, Gucci, and Louis, even though I know she doesnt care for those things. I plan on traveling the world before I turn thirty, and becoming fluent in spanish. I want to drive cross country in a convertable, and scream on top of the grand canyon.

Ughh so little time...So much to do!

Gorgeous

Despite the fact that this is a beautiful video with two beautiful people, thier skin is flawless!


Timothy Bloom - 'Til The End Of Time by UniversalMusicGroup

I'm not mad

This is a bold shoe, and not just ANYBODY can rock them...but I can confidently say that I can! Lol not to toot my own horn or anything but :TOOT:TOOT: Just wait til I get my money right!

I mean nobodys perfect

But there is somebody out there who is perfect for you, me, and the next person.

Sometimes I wonder if combination guys exist.

Combination guy: Noun

[kom-buh-ney-shuhn gahy ]

A guy who is attractive, intelligent, funny, & mature.

Nowadays it seems as though they don't, and if they do its one in a million. Once again, nobody is perfect, because God didn't create us to be perfect. Every single individual has his/her flaws which make them more appealing to others. Not to be bias or anything but I feel as though there are more combination females than males. Don't get me wrong, combination females are not easily attained but its easier than attaining a combination male. I know way more combination females than males. Sometimes I sit and ponder whether or not I'll ever find my ideal guy. Maybe I'm too critical but I don't really think so. I just like what I like and want what I want. Sheesh nothing in life is easy, and just like getting a college degree, one must study and work hard to find their ideal match. It's about trial and error, but is there enough time in the world for trial and error? I mean of course there is but time is of the essence and it doesn't stop for anybody. I can't and won't settle just to settle, because quite frankly it isn't even worth it. I know myself and I would be extremely dissatisfied and bitter. I respect those who feel that looks do not matter; more power to you. There is not enough money in the world that you can pay me to get with somebody that is sub par. I don't mean to sound sadity or rude but honestly I would like somebody who is at least an 8/10. I have PLENTY of time! I don't plan on settling down with a serious boy friend until I'm 21. Until then I'll be doing me and I'm more than happy with that. Being single is fun! Psh I'm only 18 and a perfect couple is only in a dream!

I have a new appreciation for people with maintained dreads. Honestly dreads can be very beautiful depending who is rocking them and how long they are. After going to Maryland last weekend and seeing a few attractive people with nice dreads, I'm very interested in them. I would never rock them because that's just not MY thing, but I would not mind dating a nice chocolate brother with some nice dreads lol. HMM

time to go down south much?

yummmy

TCBY= My new favorite treat

Lets play a game, sorry no boys allowed : X

I bet you all are wondering what "game" this is that I speak of. Unfortunately this is a game for only ladies to play, sorry no boys allowed.But I'm  not sure whats its called. Its not too complicated though.

Its the game that you play when you are on the pursuit of  solid man.Please understand that you cant play this game if you cannot hold your ground.If you fall too easily this game isn't for you. If you are loose please find another game.Well ladies its as simple as keeping the guy guessing. Lure them in and keep them interested.

But NEVER give the goodies. So basically if you are dating a guy make sure he knows that you have other options. Don't do it in a way that is completely obvious but make sure he is aware that you can be out with someone else doing something else. Always remember never to give 100% I don't care if hes giving 150. Give at least 50% of yourself and at most 70%.If he wants to take you out on a date every weekend of the month, make sure that you say no two weekends. Don't go out with him for two consecutive Fridays or Saturdays.Remember that this is a cat/dog game, and its ok to let the dog chase. If this guy lets you know that he likes you, make sure that he knows that you like him too, but not as much as he likes you lol. Things can get complicated but boys always like a chase, if he feels that he has all of you then he'll be over you as soon as you can blink your eye. Don't get mad if he has other girls on the side, pshhh you have other boys on the side. And most importantly don't catch too many feelings. You arent entirely sure that things will work out so save yourself the grief.

"Know the game" "Play the game" "Respect the game"-V. Henriquez

Breaking News!

As of early this morning, a 8.9 magnitude earthquake hit Japan and left many dead and injured. Other places such as Hawaii and California were affected by a tsunami also. Communication is almost impossible and many Japanese Americans are concerned about their family and friends. It has only been a year since the earthquake in Haiti and now this. My prayers and condolences go out to all those affected by both earthquakes and the tsunami.

Sheesh

Pardon me for being lazy and leaving my baby blog in the dust. I really don't have any excuses for not posting, besides the fact that I've been lazy. So much has gone on in the media form Charlie Sheen's madness, to Chris Brown's blonde hair and nude photos to the most recent issue of an earthquake in Japan. Well I'm back because I have a lot to say as always, and this is the most perfect outlet for me to express myself.