Disclaimer: I don't know why but I keep coming up with posts that deal with the ideal guy. Isn't that strange for somebody who doesn't want a relationship for another four years? Well I guess it isn't. Maybe it will take four or more years to find this guy that I keep describing.

How awesome would it be to find a guy who read or studied on the train/bus instead of listened to music. There is nothing wrong with listening to music, I do it sometimes but I find it intriguing if a guy wants to stimulate his mind even on the go. Chivalry can't be dead, I know it's alive and well down south but it needs to be here in New York also. A guy who never fails to open the door for a lady and would give up his seat on the train or bus even while he's with his girlfriend sounds like the ideal guy to me lol. Besides all that, a guy who would call up my mom and sisters just to say hello and find out how they are doing is an ideal guy. If he would take it a step further and dine with them even when I'm not around then he's a keeper. It may sound impossible to find but a guy who seldom uses the term "bitch" to refer to any female but he has to be out there. How about a guy who doesn't waste his time with foolish people because he knows from a far no one would differentiate the fool from the intellect. I don't mind a guy who drinks but he shouldn't do it often. Smoking isn't the most attractive thing either so this ideal guy would not be a smoker. Any guy who aspires to trade in his back pack or duffle bag for a brief case sounds ideal. I don't mind a guy who rocks Jordans and Nikes but if he doesn't mind putting on a pair of loafers and oxfords a couple days out of the week then he is pretttyy ideal lol. A guy who understands my strange sense of humor and would go shopping with me sounds pretty ideal. Strangely, I believe that every girl out there wishes to have the guy that I'm describing but they settle for someone else. Settling is not in my vocabulary, I just can't do it. Would you settle for a Toyota if you could have an Aston Martin? If you would I guess that's just you're prerogative, but I could never and will never. Call me silly but I'm just a girl who hopes for the best, even though I mostly expect the worst. I'd have to congratulate anybody who has thier ideal guy/girl please keep him/her.