To be "cuffed"? Or maybe Snuffed?
"The irony when you get what you want, you don't always want it." I say I want surprises, I want chivalry, I want consistency, and all that good stuff, but when I got the former, I wanted the opposite. I need to make my mind up man. I need to figure out what I want.But that's the beauty of being young and single. I get to figure out what I like/dislike, and apply it to future and current relationships.
In the past month, myself and a couple of my friends have experienced the same things. Idk if there's something in the water, orrrrrr.....yea? Idk. We experienced consistency for some time. It was lovely. We also experienced being wined and dined. That too was lovely. But, poof, out of the blue, the tides turned. The game was switched up, and the tables were turned.
While back at the ranch, we were keeping all our eggs in separate baskets. We were having our cake and eating it too. We were appreciated. But then, the other party in our situations all did something similar. Either they let down a big bomb, switched it up, started being completely honest or simply stopped caring. I was confused. Like legitimately confused. I am always in a state of perplexity, so don't mind me. But my friends were confused too. I guess that made my confusion more valid. But yea, all of us, were taken aback, but didn't fret. Because at the end of the day, there were plenty more where our situations came from. Like I said, we dispersed our eggs into different baskets. One person's loss is another person's gain. I know it's not something we were doing wrong. Oh God no! I just think that switching the game up is the "in" thing to do. Of course unstable and questionable people are going to do whats "in". But that's our fault I guess? At the end of the day, one got snuffed, two got cuffed, one was left with a mark, and one is still trying to get in where he can fit in. We need to make wiser decisions. These are all learning experiences that I wouldn't trade for the world. If I would have known better, I still would have proceeded as I did. If not, I wouldn't learn to appreciate those who can do it properly.
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