When an opportunity comes knocking at your door I urge you to answer it. Great opportunities are rare , so if/when they do come around..grab them and run. Don't make the mistake of relying on the prospect that they may come around again. Time stops for no one, one mans trash is another man's treasure. Take for example Lauren Conrad's missed opportunity to go to Paris on season one's finale of The Hills. Sometimes one may be reluctant to take on the challenge of something new and potentially challenging. But understand that some of the best things in life are worth the stress and hard work. I would like to specifically speak to the gentle men, don't pass up the opportunity to have a female who is worth it all. Worth giving up the hoes for, worth introducing to the family, and worth passing up playing 2k11 with the boys. Nowadays, good girls are hard to find so if you do stumble across one who is willing to give you the time of day, don't take her for granted. You will regret lieing and/or cheating once you realize that you can never have her back again. And ladies don't be like LC, she was lucky enough to go to Paris a year later, but luck doesn't come to everyone. I personally believe that establishing your self in a career is greater than holding on to a relationship. At the end of the day, guys want goal oriented females who can do for themselves. A real man will respect your decision to be focused on work/school. Don't be that girl whose life revolves around her boy friend. Don't be Melanie from The Game,who missed out on the opportunity to attend a prestigious University, for her man. I understand that males appreciate females who can sacrifice for them, but at the end of the day, your sacrifices may be over looked.